Me in a Word (maybe more)

I have experienced few things, thus far in this thing called life, so I thought with this blog I would share some of me with you…
The title BlurReeMom comes from all the times life seemed blurry and unclear… all the times my identity disappeared… all the times I have wondered how much of me since becoming a wife and mother, remains today…
I think in our communities, maybe society at large, women are often diluted once motherhood arrives and their identity becomes solely based on the person they’re married to or the children that they have borne and are busy raising…
It’s up to us as individuals to remain true to ourselves and remind ourselves, our communities and families that we are more than moms and wives, responsible daughters and dutiful daughter in-laws…
We should live and breathe our essence and it must not be extinguished by mundane tasks and duties that become a sea of activity that swallows our identities…
I am not just some bodies’ mom, while that title is one I treasure and it does add to the colour of my character but it is not the thing that only defines me.
Also, I’m in love with Rumi…
One of his quotes reads “Every story is Us” in this saying I see all the stories of my life, my journey and see how they have shaped me into the person I am…
My strengths, my flaws and every shade of every colour embedded into the character that is me…
I am not perfect, I am not a supermom with all the answers…
I struggle and juggling work, motherhood and life…
I am just the girl with all her dreams and aspirations, ideas and thoughts, passions and peeves…
Still… I wonder is this the girl I used to be?